So what looks like the funny truth is… I think ultimately, vanity self vanity is a virtue. And as a man especially in America, what is one of the greatest compliments one can receive?
A woman saying,
It’s okay,,, he can get away with it because he is handsome.
Super frank, to the point.
To be fair, I think the reason I love being in Asia Southeast Asia so much in Vietnam Cambodia etc.… Even Korea, everyone always tells me how handsome I am. I get that less in America because Americans are less courageous in talking about physical attractiveness especially for men. 
Doesn’t everyone want to be handsome and perceived as handsome?